HAVE AN UNSHAKABLE MARRIAGE THAT IS JOYFUL & AUTHENTIC IN JUST 48 HOURS
without having to air your dirty laundry to your pastor you see every Sunday or A strange couples therapist who knows nothing about your relationship
PRENUP
THE PRENUPTIAL COURSE DESIGNED TO DEMOLISH THE DIVORCE RATE
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WE'RE NICK
AND LEXIE
We'll make a long story short by saying we started PRENUP out of our love for marriage and our desire for couples to know that you can succeed in holy matrimony and have fun while you're at it. Prenuptial counseling is the ultimate way to invest in your marriage and be proactive, saving yourselves a lot of time and heartache on the road to that 75th anniversary. But who wants to sit through six weeks of therapy with a couples counselor or reveal your whole story to your pastor? That's why we started PRENUP. We'll guide you through every necessary conversation in a fun, honest, and relatable way.
LET'S TAKE YOUR MARRIAGE
FROM BASIC TO BLISSFUL!
Are you spending 30 hours a week preparing for your wedding BUT
No amount of time preparing for your marriage?
ARE YOU AND YOUR FUTURE SPOUSE EXPERIENCING STRESS FOR THE FIRST TIME
IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP BECAUSE OF WEDDING PLANNING?
Are you afraid you or your future spouse's shortcomings or
past experiences will affect your relationship in the future?
Are you frustrated because your future spouse won't help you with wedding planning or address issues with his/HER family in the process?
Are you tired of not being able to have tough conversations with
your future spouse?
Does the thought of opening up to your pastor or talking to a strange therapist make you feel embarrassed or awkward?
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WE'VE GOT
YOU COVERED
Get an aligned vision and decide what matters most so
you can plan the life you both want
HavE seamless communication and the ability to work through every situation life brings you
Feel like you can be 100% yourself and not only accepted, but celebrated for it
HAVE INTIMACY IN EVERY WAY, NOT JUST A HOT SEX LIFE
Raise happy and healthy children in a positive home environment
WHAT IF WE SAID IT'D
BE A PIECE OF CAKE TO...
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YOU'RE JUST A WEEKEND AWAY FROM
AN UNSHAKEABLE MARRIAGE
THE PRENUPTIAL COURSE DESIGNED TO DEMOLISH THE DIVORCE RATE
PRENUP
Did you know that 48% of all first marriages end in divorce within the first 8 years?
73% of divorcees say that a "lack of communication" led to their divorce, and 41% state that a "lack of preparation for marriage" contributed to their divorce.
PRENUP is an online course that guides you and your spouse through every conversation couples should have before entering into marriage.
These are conversations that allow you to get in-sync with your spouse and work through obstacles every marriage faces without compounding issues that spiral into "the D word."
We all want a hot and sexy relationship full of trust and authenticity, right? Prenuptial counseling gives you the tools to keep that flame lit while you build the life of your dreams together.
The best part is you and your future spouse can work through the course at your own pace and in the privacy of your own home.
We present information and guide your conversations in a fun, honest, and relatable way that will have you laughing together and forming a deeper connection than you ever imagined possible.
YOU DON'T HAVE TO REKINDLE A FLAME THAT STAYS LIT
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HERE'S WHAT WE'LL COVER
Define your expectations for marriage and what each of your roles will look like throughout DIFFERENT seasons of life
Identify your natural tendencies that will create problems in the future and how to fix them
Learn how to fight for a solution instead of fighting to win
Create a plan for resolving future conflicts
Decided whether you should share a bank account or not and
how to do it correctly
Create a plan for managing money and building wealth
Foster healthy communication skills allowing you to express your feelings or talk through any situation while keeping your cool
Get on the same page when it comes to what is most important in life
Define your spiritual beliefs and how they should influence your marriage
Develop a plan for children and how you will raise them
Learn what to avoid to prevent intimacy issues
HOW TO TALK ABOUT YOUR SEX LIFE SO YOU BOTH GET WHAT YOU WANT
WE'D PUT A $VALUE$
ON IT BUT A HAPPY LIFE IS INVALUABLE
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MARRIAGE REQUIRES EFFORT, BUT IT
DOESN'T HAVE TO BE "HARD WORK"
HOW IT WORKS
7
28
300
1
MODULES
VIDEOS
MINUTES
UNSHAKABLE
MARRIAGE
communication
is king & queen
Communication is they key to every successful relationship. We'll teach you the why and the how behind expressing your emotions without losing yourself in them or shutting down completely.
Starting with these skills will allow you to communicate effectively through every conversation throughout the remainder of the course.
expectations &
role beliefs
Here we'll discuss how each of you envision your life going and what defines a successful, happy life at the end of the road. We'll also discuss who will work, who will raise the kids, who makes the decisions, etc. We'll share what we do, how we came to those conclusions and what we've seen work for other couples so you have the knowledge to design a fulfilling life and work towards your goals as a team.
DITCHING YOUR BAGGAGE
You've probably heard before that we are the sum total of our life experiences. How we view and handle situations heavily depends on our past experiences. In this module, you'll learn to identify and communicate why you feel or act the way you do. You'll come to a better understanding of one another and be able to decide if and how any changes need to be made.
in love and war
Fighting isn't bad as long as you're fighting for each other. And even if you're still in the euphoric stage of engagement and you haven't experienced much conflict, trust us, you will. We'll teach you how to keep your cool, how to admit your mistakes, and how to find a resolution while avoiding irreparable damage.
IN THE STREETS & IN THE SHEETS
There's a lot more to intimacy than maintaining a hot sex life. In this module we'll cover what are arguably the most crucial parts of a successful marriage. Not only will we not make it weird, but the two of you will finish this section of the course with a deeper bond than you share with anyone else.
mo' money, less problems
Study after study finds financial disagreements are the strongest disagreement types to predict divorce. Get on the same page when
it comes to money so you can avoid all that unnecessary stress later.
having kids &
how to raise them
First comes love, then comes marriage, then comes the joyous yet insane rollercoaster of adding tiny humans to the mix. You may not finish the course knowing exactly how many kids you want, but we'll help you talk through your desires, your concerns, and share our experiences with you so you can decide for yourselves in time. We'll also talk about family values, how you envision raising your children, and what gives your children the best chance at a happy, health life (*hint* it has a lot to do with your marriage).
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communi-cation
is king & queen
couples who complete
premarital counseling
marriage success rate
80%
couples who DON'T
INVEST IN THEIR MARRIAGE
DIVORCE rate
50%
INVEST NOW SO YOU
CAN THRIVE FOREVER
The national average cost of a wedding is $28,000.
Is your marriage is worth 1% of that?
his & her vow books
write your vows workbook
wedding planning checklist
365 dinner recipes for your first year of marriage
weekly date night ideas
married money basics- sharing a bank account, taxes, & investing
change your last name checklist
honeymoon packing list
INCLUDED BONUSES
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couples spend an average of 528 hours (22 full days) planning their wedding.
how much of that are you preparing for your marriage?
HOW DO
WE KNOW?
We're Nick and Lexie, husband and wife, wedding photographers and videographers, parents of four children between the ages of 1 and 14, and, now, your marriage hype duo!
We got married in 2017 after dating for just 9 months. In our short 7 years, we’ve accomplished a lot and navigated our fair share of situations you won’t find in fairy tales like- college graduation, Nick adopting and becoming a father to Lexie's daughter, adding three more babies to our family, overcoming complicated family dynamics, starting multiple businesses, DIY home renovation, and more.
Through every season of achievement (and a little stress), our marriage has gotten stronger, not because we have the perfect marriage, but because we are aligned on what matters most and able to work through anything.
After working with hundreds of engaged couples through our wedding business, and helping some of our friends through marital challenges, we started to see a need for premarital counseling.
But what is premarital counseling and where do you find it?
Do you have to go to church or hire a therapist?
Does it mean your relationship is in trouble if you feel like you need it?
These common questions led us to start PRENUP- a fun, relatable, and transformational way to help couples have an unshakable marriage filled with joy, authenticity, intimacy, good sex, and everything else you dream of when you decide to enter into marriage.
Our dream is that by strengthening marriages, we will demolish the divorce rate, create more stable home environments that lead to happier and healthier children, fewer mental health issues, reduced suicide rates, and less drug and alcohol abuse. We can change the world by changing our relationships at home.
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the only risk in
prenuptial counseling
is not doing it
PRENUP IS THE PERFECT COURSE FOR YOU IF:
PRENUP IS NOT THE BEST COURSE FOR YOU IF:
YOU'RE ENGAGED, THINKING ABOUT GETTING ENGAGED, RECENTLY MARRIED, OR DEALING WITH SOME OF THE ISSUES WE MENTIONED ABOVE
you're serious about marriage and want yours to be the best it can be (you like to be proactive vs. reactive)
you're excited and open to exploring more about each other and how you can be the best husband/wife TO EACH OTHER
YOU WANT TO become the definition of *couple goals*
YOU STILL LIKE TO LAUGH AND HAVE FUN WHILE LEARNING ABOUT SERIOUS THINGS (WHEN APPROPRIATE, OF COURSE)
YOU'RE EXPERIENCING SERIOUS MARITAL ISSUES THAT NEED TO BE counseled INDIVIDUALLY (INFIDELITY, ANGER, ETC.)
YOU'RE EXPERIENCING ABUSE- LEAVE NOW OR REACH OUT and we will connect you with the help you need
you want to learn about marriage as you go even if that means learning lessons the hard way
you're seeking 1:1 counseling from a therapist or your pastor
YOU do not like to laugh or have fun
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BECOME THE NEW
RELATIONSHIP GOALS
PRENUP
You'll be the couple all your friends come to for advice!
his & her vow books
write your vows workbook
wedding planning checklist
365 dinner recipes for your first year of marriage
weekly date night ideas
married money basics- sharing a bank account, taxes, & investing
change your last name checklist
honeymoon packing list
INCLUDED BONUSES
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BECOME
THE NEW
RELATIONSHIP *GOALS*
You'll be the couple all your friends come to for advice!
his & her vow books
write your vows workbook
wedding planning checklist
365 dinner recipes for your first year of marriage
weekly date night ideas
married money basics- sharing a bank account, taxes, & investing
change your last name checklist
honeymoon packing list
INCLUDED BONUSES
PRENUP
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FAQ
YOU'VE GOT QUESTIONS? WE'VE GOT ANSWERS!
Is this course faith-based?
isn't counseling for people who are having problems?
how do we view the course?
how long do we get access to the course content?
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can we benefit from this if we're already married?
We are Christians, and what we teach does align with the Bible, but this is not a Bible study. The information is practical and applicable to everyone.
Absolutely! The course is designed to help all couples at any stage in marriage.
The definition of counsel is advice. Some people seek advice to fix a problem, but prenuptial counseling is all about being proactive and seeking advice when it comes to one of the most important things in your life, your marriage.
The course is delivered through an online platform where each module is laid out in an organized way making navigation super easy. You can pause, rewind, start, and stop all at your own leisure.
You receive lifetime access to the course, and you'll receive free updated information and videos as we add more content along the way.
can we talk to you and/or Nick one on one?
We are 100% an open book and available to answer any questions via email. Video chats are available for an additional cost. Email us to inquire.